DATING TIPS FOR MEN WHEN MEETING PEOPLE ONLINE
I have adopted online dating in search for friendship, love, or even marriage for 8 years before I met my american husband. In addition to that, I have worked for a dating website company over 4 years and have learned different tactics used by scammers / posers in online dating platforms.
Be suspicious. When you find attractive pictures uploaded by a filipino girl online, request for a verification. Be nice about it, filipino girls are naturally beautiful and sensitive, those pictures might be real! After you initiated the conversation and have exchanged few messages with a filipino girl, ask her for cam-to-cam chatting. "You're excited to see her beautiful smile!"
Filipino girls uploading fake photos give, often (at least 3 times) give excuses like,
1st day Filipino Girl: Sorry Hon, I don't have a webcam right now
2nd day Filipino Girl: Baby, I wish you can see me on webcam but I don't have money to buy it.
Foreign Man: How much is the webcam, hon?
Filipino Girl: Only $100, baby.
Online Dating Tips: Filipina girl who post real photos does not give excuses to verify herself on a webcam. In the Philippines, majority of the filipinos do not own a personal computer or a laptop but renting a computer with webcam cost Php10.00 - Php25.00 pesos per hour ($.34 - $.50 cents) depending on the location.
So, NO NO! Don't send $100 for a webcam!
Filipino girls uploading fake photos give, often (at least 3 times) give excuses like,
1st day Filipino Girl: Sorry Hon, I don't have a webcam right now
2nd day Filipino Girl: Baby, I wish you can see me on webcam but I don't have money to buy it.
Foreign Man: How much is the webcam, hon?
Filipino Girl: Only $100, baby.
Online Dating Tips: Filipina girl who post real photos does not give excuses to verify herself on a webcam. In the Philippines, majority of the filipinos do not own a personal computer or a laptop but renting a computer with webcam cost Php10.00 - Php25.00 pesos per hour ($.34 - $.50 cents) depending on the location.
So, NO NO! Don't send $100 for a webcam!
Online Dating Tips: Look for verified members!
Philippines dating platforms, such as, Cebuanas.com allows members to take a snapshot photo from their webcams, Filipinocupid allows members to upload Identification cards and self introduction videos to get profile verified.
Philippines dating platforms, such as, Cebuanas.com allows members to take a snapshot photo from their webcams, Filipinocupid allows members to upload Identification cards and self introduction videos to get profile verified.
| 2 Online Dating Tips: There are foreign girls pretending to be a filipina girl or any asian chick. Part of my job before was to review new girl members profile such as, checking the uploaded photos, checking profile descriptions, and random check of send messages. An average of 2 out of 10 foreign girls pretended to be a filipino girl. Dating website admin can easily identify fake profiles created by 419 Scammers by checking and comparing registered IP address & log Ip Address. IP addresses commonly used by 419 scammers are googleable. How 419 scam works? The advance fee fraud is based on blinding the victim with the prospect of a sudden windfall of an unexpected fortune in order to trick him/her into paying a considerable amount of money to the scammer. The victim never receives the promised but a non-existent fortune. Here's an example of a 419 Scam Message: Dear Prize Winner, Acting on the instructions in your claims file with Reference number 3NW-4 and Batch number FN-112, I wish to inform you that payment of your Lottery Claims amounting to £1,500,000.00 being prize money from NATIONWIDE LOTTO UK Third Category draws has been certified by all authorities involved. Be informed that instruments of payment for the sum of £1,500,000.00 to you, is already in our possession and shall be processed upon meeting the requirements stated below. You are required to fill a "Lottery Winnings Claim Form" with all necessary details. Follow the link below to download the form http://www.heritage-finance-ltd.net/lottery.html After download, kindly print, fill, and send to us either by fax or as an email attachment. You will also be required to pay a fee of £3,670.00 (Three thousand six hundred and Seventy Great Britain Pounds), or its equivalent in your local currency. This payment is to cover transfer charges, Insurance of vital documents like prize claim certificate and other transfer documents, handling and opening of account charges. Note that your total prize claim of £1,500,000.00 has been insured to the real value and as such cannot be deducted from. This is in accordance with section 13(1)(n) of the National Lottery Act of the British Lottery Affairs Commission as adopted in 1993 and amended in 1998. This is to protect winners and to avoid misappropriation of funds. A certificate of prize claim certificate along side other vital documents will be sent to you via Courier service immediately transfer of your winnings is effected. Note that your winnings will be transferred within 24hrs after the receipt of both requirements stated above. Congratulations once more, I shall be awaiting your filled Lottery Winnings Claims Form. Truly yours, Mr. Dennis Hammond, Foreign Department Manager, Heritage Finance Ltd. Tel: +44-20-7060-0194 Fax: +44-20-7504-3787 EMAIL: dhammond4@heritagefinance-ltd.org WEBSITE:www.heritage-finance-ltd.net 3 Online Dating Tips: Do not send money for a Web Cam Sex! There are tons of posers and scammers doing their craft in the net today just to earn money from you. Do not provide your credit card information to anyone for a webcam show because you will be an easy prey of frauds or scams. 4 Online Dating Tips: Do not get fooled by: "Honey, I love you and I need...." Do not be easily carried away from this common tactic used by SOME girls
"I need money for my mothers surgery"
"Babe, my birthday is coming up next week, I would really like to throw a small party with my family and friends but I don't have money"
"Can I borrow money from you, I need to pay my tuition, I will promise to pay you back"
"Baby, I wanted to chat with you but I need money to pay for the internet"
5 Online Dating Tips : Scammers are Getting Smarter! Some girls have learned that common tactics are not effective anymore. Some girls aimed for a huge amount of money! Thus, they take their time in winning the trust of a man and when trust is gained. Foreign man decides to get her a visa to come to his country. Foreign man sends substantial amount of money for visa application or processing in one time.
Online Dating Tips: If you get into the integrating stage of a relational development, and have decided to support her needs in processing the papers to bring her to your country. Do it on a step-by-step process, for example:
Filipino girl does not have a passport yet. Send her enough money to get the necessary papers or documents for Philippines Passport.
NSO (Aunthenticated Birth Certificate) - Php 125.00 ($2.84)
NBI Clearance - Php 150.00 ($3.41)
Without those documents the filipina girl can not apply for a Philippines Passport.
When she already have the NSO and NBI Clearance, let her show you those during cam-to-cam chat or scanned over the receipt to you. Then, you can send her money to apply for the Philippines Passport.
She goes to DFA Office (Department of foreign affairs) to start processing the Philippines Passport.
Passport Cost and Processing Times:
*Bring original birth certificate in case when requested
To get more information on Philippines Passport Application & Processing:
http://www.dfa.gov.ph/main/index.php/consular-services/passport/passport
When Passport is processed, do the same thing and ask her to scanned it over to you. Check the issued date of passport! For Visa Processing: Visit >> http://www.tipsnplacetodate.com/p/visa-application-tips.html
Online Dating Tips: There are
numerous sincere and great women out there that is deserving of your
affection,
care and time. Never fall for a trap to undeserving women.
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Online Dating Tips: Any woman that you believe you need to bribe with an expensive gift is probably not looking into the relationship for the right reasons. | |||||||||||||||
